God created us with free will. We have the ability to love, hate, give, hoard, show affection, or hurt others. Our free will gives us choices and those choices are not always made in the best interest of others. Many times choices collide with other choices and dilemmas are presented in life. Some with an easy moral solution, others with complex answers. These dilemmas down the road were opportunities for growth.
Take a moment to reflect on any dilemmas or conflicts in your life. If you dig deeply can you recognize an opportunity disguised within that dilemma? So, much of life is how we perceive it!