Being a “holy” family does not mean you are perfect, that you “always” get it right and get along. It means that you love one another, regardless of your faults, that you build each other up, comfort each other and love unconditionally. Being “holy” is being of God. God our father has taught us how to love this way. If we love the way God teaches us and loves then we are holy. God gave his only son so that we could follow his example. So that we could understand love. Love each other like that within your family and yours will be holy too.